People filled it up to see Dolly Parton eating in the back corner. Also, What happened to Susan Harling Robinson husband? I hope you enjoy getting to know her a little better and in so doing, can make a deeper connection with the film. You have chosen this person to be their own family member. He pulled through. Twenty-five years ago, "Steel Magnolias" captivated moviegoers with the heartbreaking, yet laugh-filled story based on how playwright Robert Harling lost his sister, Susan Harling Robinson, in 1985, and how a group of women in a small southern town cope with their tragic loss. With its 25th anniversary this year, memories of a teenage Julia eating hamburgers grilled by his dad at the family home, while Dolly Parton sang on his sofa, come flooding back as Robert, 62, speaks. There was an error deleting this problem. Sara Anne Berger officiating. When Susan learned she was a diabetic at age twelve, one of the first things she said was that her illness was not going to get in the way of anything. True to her word, she never let it slow her down. JOHN HARLING Daddy never read it, so he didnt know what the hell was going on. , updated Stressed and distraught, Harling was advised by his fellow acting class workshop members to put his thoughts on paper. Robert says: My mother said you dont want to saddle him with anything its out there, he will discover it, we never made him go and see Steel Magnolias. You look forward to seeing more of this story another day. As the film's creator describes, Robert Harling grew up moving "from southern town to southern town, to southern town, eventually ending up in Louisiana." This nomadic childhood made it hard to make friends from place to place. We all thought it was a drama, and then the first night it was in front of an audience, we were shocked. Previously sponsored memorials or famous memorials will not have this option. What people dont understand is that its honest even below what they see as a story. SHIRLEY MACLAINE We immediately saw that Herbert was cruel to both Dolly and Julia. Clairee came from a fabulous aunt in South Carolina, and his sisters best friend was named Ouiser. Harling ended up writing the play truly becauseall he wanted to do was have somebody remember her, particularly her two-year-old son who may have no recollection of her in the future. BOB HARLING I felt happy, I felt sad, I just couldnt believe what was happening. The playwright and screenwriter reflects on the Southern film that touched the world. From that point on, the cathartic experience of Steel Magnolias started in our family. It became a nightly thing to see who was the huge star in the audience. Id go to the ice cream store and the magazine place and the video store. The Oscar winner was the last to be hired and Robert reveals the role was originally offered to Meg Ryan however, on the day they offered her the part, she won the lead in When Harry Met Sally. Flowers added to the memorial appear on the bottom of the memorial or here on the Flowers tab. Please reset your password. But she wanted a child, she went ahead and had a child, and then, sure enough, her metabolism started to failcirculatory system, kidneys, the whole thing. Even as a young child, Susans career goal was to follow in her mother Margarets footsteps and become a nurse. She would look through their scrapbooks and dad would cook hamburgers. Sad that he also wanted to be a NICU doctor, but never went on to specialize, because he had the love of his life that took up his time, and she was so much more important! Complications ensued. The untold story of what would become one of the most beloved touchstones of Southern culture. My mother and father truly both seized upon it immediately as a way of celebrating my sister and keeping her memory aliveand these two small town people from Louisiana really rose to this wonderful occasion and used it for charity. This year marks the thirtieth anniversary of Steel Magnolias, a play Robert Harling wrote just months after his sister, Susan, died of complications from diabetes. We were all tested, said Robert, but my mother said the buck stops here, she was going to do it, she had to be there for Susan, thats the way my mother was. . She will jump at the chance to wear a bad wig and glasses., All that was left was Shelby. Pat, my ex-brother-in-law, he remarried five or six months after her death and the first time I heard my nephew call this other woman mama was when I said No Susan cant disappear. They think I'm really cool. I grew up very near the Red River, but had never fished it before. By everyone that knew her! Kathy said, You werent there through all of that pain, you didnt watch your child die. The feedback was Its not commercial because its a bunch of women and it takes place in a beauty parlor, but well send it out. Well, all these people wanted to do it. When Mama asked me if she could read it, I said, You dont want to. Afterward, I said, Mom, well just kill it, I cant put you through this. And she said, Its wonderful because its true. She just closed it and that was it, end of topic. After I told her I had an appointment, I told her about my blog story and that she was indeed my Truvy. Finally, the date was set, and we started shooting at the end of June 1988. Herbert said, Its a wonderful Hollywood move. She is an inspiration to me as a mother. "I said, 'What would Susan do?' Now comes the true metaphor behind Steel Magnolia.What does it mean? Its honest all the way down. Susan Harling-Robinson was the inspiration for the play and movie "Steel Magnolias", written by her brother Robert Harling. https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/8696788/laura-susan-robinson. Photos larger than 8Mb will be reduced. Then Paramount bought the movie rights and Harling wrote the script, transforming the play into a movie. The rest of us were always complaining. Oh sure, I had ridden on crew boats when I worked over at the production dock. It was a difficult birth with her son arriving three months premature, but clearly baby Robert had inherited his Mamas strength and indomitable spirit. We will review the memorials and decide if they should be merged. Its that Southern thing of using a family name as a first name, Harling says. He said: She came to us and said this is a wonderful movie ensemble, but I get to be a leading lady, and we said absolutely, you must do this, so the role was open again.. Robert admits he had no idea there was any comedy in the play until audiences started laughing. Its unfair to make a four-year-old think my mom died because of me. The last time I talked to Susan was on her birthday, October 7 [1985]. Sadly, the transplant didnt work. She directed the Youth Choir. Its the oldest town in the Louisiana Purchase. . ", 7. In Shreveport, Susan met and fell in love with a pediatrician, Patrick Robinson. Less than a year into the plays run, the legendary producer Ray Stark bought the film rights, and in 1988 it was made into a movie starring Sally Field and Julia Roberts as the mother/daughter characters, MLynn and Shelby. Ross was hired as director. That was something somebody said who sold makeup in Natchitoches. When we sat down in the theater on opening night, I was the most nervous Id ever been in my life. ROBERT HARLING Julia was so eager to have the stamp of approval from Mama and Daddy to play their daughter.
The film, shot entirely on location in Natchitoches in the summer of 1988, celebrates the strength and indomitable spirit of Southern women. And lo and behold, every woman in town was saying, He based Ouiser on me., So I put these ten characters in a beauty shop, and it only took me ten days to write it. Everything they talk about in the play is true. It was so powerful to me because here was this incredibly strong womanmy motherwho had really fought Susan when she said she was going to try to have a baby. You need a Find a Grave account to continue. Susan was a force to be reckoned with, Robert says. And that was it. This memorial has been copied to your clipboard. Harling didnt want to use real names, so he gave the character based on his mother the name of a close friend from Alabama, who was called MLynn. She was a majorette. So, I parked beside the fabulous plantation home and walked back a half block to the park at the corner. But she never let her disease inhibit or alter her life in any way. ROBERT HARLING The L.A. people required things that you didnt find at the local Piggly Wiggly. ROBERT HARLING As we were going into production, Michael and Kathy Weller asked me what my parents thought about the play, and I said I hadnt told them. The women in my town talked in bumper stickers, they were funny, funny people. Read More "Mom, feel like cooking some shrimp? Desperate to be a mom, she defied doctors advice to have her much-wanted baby. Search above to list available cemeteries. I could visibly see his chest rise up. Nothing to stop her: Susan Harling Robinson was so determined to be a majorette, despite her diabetes diagnosis aged 12 - that she made her mother sew pockets into her uniform for candy. We were basically grieving with the world. I said, Its got to be a painful thing for them. Try again later. ROBERT HARLING I had two dear friends, Kathy and Michael Weller. She underwent a kidney transplant from her mother, which did little to help her case. Robert said: She walked into the room and that smile lit everything up and I said thats my sister, so she joined the party and she was magnificent., Director Herbert Ross was notoriously tough on newcomer Julia, who would go on to be nominated for her first Oscar for Steel Magnolias. Learn more about merges. The email does not appear to be a valid email address. I play Truvy every Halloween, but my name is Tracee! Hey, close enough! There was Dolly with a waist cincher no more than sixteen inches around and heels about two feet high and a wig that must have weighed twenty-three pounds. It was much grimmer than I portrayed it in the play. When the producer Ray Stark made an offer to buy the rights, Harling was thrilled. She was a majorette. Robert Harling, the author and creator of Steel Magnolias, lost his sister Susan Harling-Robinson, from diabetic complications. When I was a kid, the mystique of the beauty parlor was that guys were never allowed. Robert Harling, the author and creator of Steel Magnolias, lost his sisterSusan Harling-Robinson, from diabetic complications. MARGO MARTINDALE But we played it like a drama. This beloved classic's true story still has more to share. "I wrote him back and I said, 'Save your toast to me. When playwright Robert Harling wrote Steel Magnolias back in 1987, he undoubtedly had no idea that more than 30 years later, people would still be quoting it regularly. Steel Magnolias is a play that debuted off-Broadway in 1987. "And, you know, Shirleys never wrong. I asked her if that was a private home. Robert Harling, living and working in New York City, not only distraught over his sister Susan's death, he was also upset with his brother-in-law, who remarried within six months of his sister's demise. I remember the manager of the store saying to a local reporter, Yep, if it hadnt been for Herbert Ross, nobody around here would know the difference between osetra and beluga.. Theres a moment where Ouiser has just had a tirade about how she hates kids, and people are parking on her lawn, and shes really spewing anger, and MLynn says, Well, Ouiser, if thats really the way you feel, you should come down to the mental guidance center and talk to somebody. They were both good strong Southern womenthats what makes the play so good. She was extremely determined and focused - she wanted what she wanted and what she wanted was a kid. Many writers take months or years to write a play. I rolled down my window and told her I was looking for the Susan Harling Memorial. ", 11. Its about you and Susan and the whole thing. But shes a Steel Magnoliashe was going to read it. There amidst the red brick walkway stands a beautiful memorial plaque with color photos and a short bio of Susans life written by her brother Robert Harling, the playwright. Written as a tribute to the strength of his sister, his mother, and the coterie of women who supported them, the work broke records at . ", 6. Be sure to SHARE this article if you love the play and film, Steel Magnolias! Harling said the title, "Steel Magnolias," is the perfect description for the women it profiles: They're both delicate like a flower, but also hard as steel. Well do the play, itll come and go, and they wont know anything about it. I was just chicken. And lo and behold, every woman in town was saying, He based Ouiser on me., photo: Tristar Pictures/Courtesy Everett Collection. Its a very Republican area of the country, but there were some people who put Dukakis signs in their yard just to be neighborly. Use the links under See more to quickly search for other people with the same last name in the same cemetery, city, county, etc. The film is a film adaptation of Robert Harling 's 1987 play of the same name about the bond a group of women share in a small-town Southern community, and how they cope with the death of one of their own. I can make food for Johnny [Harlings younger brother], I can whip Mama and Daddy into line, but I dont know how to help you, and I wish I could. Even when she was sick, shed come home from the hospital and make a box of brownies and send them to me. At the corner of Pine and Cypress streets is a small memorial park dedicated to Susan Harling Robinson, whose name may not mean anything to you, but the film her story inspired almost certainly will. BW is cooking her way through La. Then one day I basically told him to go f**k himself and everybody heard it and things got better. Garden & Gun is a registered trademark. The supporting cast features Tom Skerritt, Dylan McDermott, Sam Shepard and Kevin J. O'Connor . So Susans protecting him, its so clear to me.
Through more tears I read your story and Susans. SHIRLEY MACLAINE I loved studying the townspeople and walking through their lives a little. Please enter your email and password to sign in. He stood there and listened for a while and said Ah! Susan had gone in to get a shunt to help her dialysis and usually you have a local anesthetic But for some reason she had a general anesthetic and her heart just stopped.. Susan H. Robinson. ROBERT HARLING Susan was incredibly supportive after I came to New York. Im leaving. Thank God it didnt stick. Quick as a flash, he was, Read More Chapter 6 The CaptainContinue, Crew-change day was there before I knew it and time to embark on a new adventure. So, I loved all that, of course! Try again later. The rich history of this town is filled with amazing women noted for their strength, courage, and purpose. the warmth and support of that sisterhood remained important to her throughout her life. I couldnt imagine it. Susan Harling-Robinson was the inspiration for the play and movie "Steel Magnolias", written by her brother Robert Harling. ROBERT HARLING Ray said, Why dont we shoot it where it happened? That was unheard-ofnormally youd find your locations in the Valley and in L.A., but Ray insisted. Ray said, You know what, weve got a lot of Oscar winners and stars. When I finished the play, I took it to the receptionist at a literary agency, and she gave it to one of the agents. Author Bobby Harling grew up here and wrote the story in 10 days time about his sister, Susan Harling Robinson, the mother of a 2-year-old son. This account has been disabled. 25 Feb/23. Once again, thank you for sharing this beautiful town and story with us. Susan passed away in October of 1985. I got to do the opening for Garys TV segment, plus he taught me how to use his video camera. You are only allowed to leave one flower per day for any given memorial. Susan's husband, Ben Ledyard, previously told Dateline he had gone to see a movie with a friend around 8 p.m. on Monday, July 22, 2019. . Shows the love he has for her. They came to New York to visit a week before we went into rehearsal, and I got up some courage. The play wasnt even originally supposed to be a comedy. About six thousand pounds, apparently, A lollygagging road trip off the main drag of Floridas overseas highway. You may not upload any more photos to this memorial, This photo was not uploaded because this memorial already has 20 photos, This photo was not uploaded because you have already uploaded 5 photos to this memorial, This photo was not uploaded because this memorial already has 30 photos, This photo was not uploaded because you have already uploaded 15 photos to this memorial. While a student at Tulane University Law School in New Orleans, he sang with a big band and performed in summer community theater. Also, I had the voices of the women I grew up with. I wish they did so that more people could honor and learn about this amazing woman. 2007-2023 Garden & Gun Magazine LLC. She loved being around all those babies and dreamed of one day having a big noisy house full of kids. She would tell me things like, Youve only allowed a minute and fifteen seconds to wash and set a womans hair. photo: United ArchivesGmbH/Alamy Stock Photo. Shes Shelby. I thought, Okay, I can breathe now, my sisters in good hands., SHIRLEY MACLAINE The moment Julia walked into the reading, I thought, That woman is going to be a star. I called my agent and said, I dont know if she has an agent, but you should handle her.. Susan treasured the pride of heritage and the beauty one finds in her beloved Natchitoches. So, the faithful Sears man showed up first thing this morning. "She would do something completely inappropriate and totally out of the box. In Steel Magnolias Id be part of an ensemble. We went back to the list: Laura Dern, Winona Ryder, all the hot young stars. Early Friday morning found me on a boat with Gary Rispone of Paradise Louisiana TV show and retired Col. Bruce Wilson, our fishing guide for the day. But Harling said one of the film's stars, MacLaine, helped him realize that no one's really gone. It is the image of a small, blonde-haired all-American boy beaming in the Easter sunshine that flashes up at the end of Hollywood classic Steel Magnolias and stays with you long after the credits have rolled. Filmed in his hometown, Robert says: I dont care what people say I wrote down what I heard. Tom Skerritt [who played Shelbys father] rode his bicycle to a restaurant downtown where he ate his lunch most days. In February, 1983, Susan and Patrick had a son, Robert. Robert Harling reveals: 'Susan died in the fall of 1985. But you never know how people are going to react having that kind of personal information up there onstage. ROBERT HARLING Herbert had this wayhe was from Brooklyn and started out as a chorus boy, but he became this acclaimed director and managed to talk like British gentry. Thanks for your help! Julia Roberts as Shelby and Sally Fields as MLynn after the wedding scene in the film. It all seemed too intimate, too cozy for me to just drive up in there. So Im not going to complain about anything.. Ray called and said, Olympias doing Clairee. I knew Olympia from her work in New York theater, so I knew she could do anything, but I was worried that she wasnt Southern. ucla prime cohort; h e b shortbread cookies. If there is one moment of joy to be gained out of this experience, you cannot deny them that. Because what is art other than taking the pieces around you and re-forming them into some vision that satisfies you and enriches others? NATCHITOCHES, La. Harling apparentlyfelt that it was important for the characters in the play to use humor to cope with hard times and difficult situations. ', It was beyond a dream that Steel Magnolias would be turned into a Hollywood movie. There were tough days. But she said no, you must do this, its Susan. At the time, Margo was a working actress from Jacksonville, Texas, and she had this incredible voice. As the years have gone by, there are a lot of lines that get quoted back to me. Thank you for fulfilling this photo request. Theyre fine just like they are! It can take you to an uncompromisingly dark place sometimes. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. They were just flummoxedI wasnt a writer. "When we lost her, it was really devastating to me, and I was having a lot of trouble dealing with it.". Robert Harling reveals: 'Susan died in the fall of 1985. Remove advertising from a memorial by sponsoring it for just $5. 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